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Reverse Gaydar?

Why do I get hit on by Gay men so frequently? I'm of course, flattered, but where are the straight women who want to hit on me?

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dianamarie
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:00 pm (UTC)
Where are you at when such hitting usually happens? Is there a trend in location?
sudrin
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:02 pm (UTC)
Well, today it was at work. But I was in the sleep clinic as a patient. One of the employees used the fact that I was ALSO an employee as an oportunity to be "Familiar" in a way with me that was obviously flirtatious. Its usually at Stores otherwise.
dianamarie
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:12 pm (UTC)
Eee, sleep clinic craziness!

Maybe it's the type of stores? Are they are the sort of stores that women don't frequent as much, or are they ones where the guys who are there would stereotypically be homosexual? (i.e. Bed, Bath, & Beyond).

That, or they are just drawn to the friendly blond guy. You do have a styling thing going, after all.
frogdiva
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:15 pm (UTC)
It's the spikey hair? LOL
dianamarie
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:19 pm (UTC)
TOTALLY
I wasn't going to say that though.
frogdiva
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:20 pm (UTC)
Re: TOTALLY
No, I'm not saying that the spikey hair makes him look gay, I'm saying that he's more stylish because of the spikey hair.

David, I don't think you're gay! LOL
sudrin
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:17 pm (UTC)
If I go to Bed Bath and Beyond WITHOUT a woman with me, I AM Gay. ;)


...Bed Bath and Beyond! Like I'm going to go in there! ;)
dianamarie
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:19 pm (UTC)
I'm just saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaying!

HAHAHHA.
sudrin
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:21 pm (UTC)
It does remind me of a funny story from when I was a teenager.. My "Friend" Jerry (He was Carls friend really) would never go into Victorias Secret with his Girlfriend. He would always stand just outside. I never quite understood that but it still makes me laugh to this day.
madush69
Nov. 18th, 2008 01:55 am (UTC)
Real men have no problem going into Victoria's Secret.
If they had normal sizes, I'd go there with Cathy.
In fact, the last time I went to Victoria's Secret, I bought something for me. The most recent "Spice Girls" best of CD was a V.S. exclusive.
frogdiva
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:21 pm (UTC)
I ALMOST asked you last week if you would go there with me to pick up something, but I knew better ;)
sudrin
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:36 pm (UTC)
Would it be my balls we were picking up, because I probably misplaced them if I was going in there. ;)

Actually its all kind of funny since Andy and Erica registered there for the wedding and I went out of my way NOT to get them something from there.
frogdivalog
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:46 pm (UTC)
I think I went there with you several years ago for someone else's wedding gift once. I'm pretty sure it was you.

So now I know you took me with you so that you didn't look gay ;)
frogdivalog
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:47 pm (UTC)
Oops! This is an OLD journal!
sudrin
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:55 pm (UTC)
And I wasn't enjoying it THEN either. ;)
frogdiva
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:14 pm (UTC)
I get hit on by gay men, too. Where are the straight men who want to hit on me?

It's not just you. Maybe they're overly flirtatious?
thehula
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:40 pm (UTC)
Why wouldn't they hit on you? Getting hit on by The Gay is like validation of The Hot. For example, I never complain about getting hit on, even if it's a toothless vagabond at the corner gas station.

Okay, maybe then, but ONLY then.
sudrin
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:54 pm (UTC)
I'm all for it, I just don't know why I don't get hit on by an equal number of women.
wednes
Nov. 17th, 2008 11:51 pm (UTC)
Sorry, we're married.
michael622
Nov. 18th, 2008 01:33 am (UTC)
Woman who wants to hit on you
Right here.
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